I may have thrown this question out to the blogosphere before, but...
Do you believe in leagues? Meaning, men and women should fall in some kind of "unspoken but understood" level themselves and they should date within that same level? You know how people say "He's/She's out of my league"? Do you feel that one statement is just an honest assessment on one's part or is it a sign of insecurity and fear of rejection?
It feels so juvenile. Yet, I'm finding that it is actually almost too easy to fall into the practice of dismissing someone because you've determined that they are below or above your league-line...without even realizing it. Like its just been programmed into your mind for years or something.
Equal opportunity, I say! (But, can I walk the walk?)
Just wondering...
Just asking...
5 comments:
There are many ways to be attracted to someone. To me the equation is different for every person you meet.
leagues are what keep the ugly guys from getting the pretty girls. beauty and the beast is a fairy tale...teach all your daughters! ha!
Just don't settle for anything less than you deserve (which is the BEST, by the way!) :) Love you!
Everyone deserves at least a first date and an open mind ...
Would a homebody, slob, or over acheiver be compatible with their opposites? Would a person who'd worked hard to to get to where they are be happy with someone who had wasted their life? To have high (but realistic) expectations is not a bad thing. Sarah's comment says it all.
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